Published January 25, 2026

First Time Homebuyer? - What I Would Do.

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Written by Samuel Farley

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If I Were Buying My First Home in Denver Today

Buying your first home is exciting — and if we’re being honest, it can also feel overwhelming. In a market like Denver, you’re constantly hearing advice from friends, scrolling through online estimates, and seeing headlines that make it seem like you need to have everything figured out before you even start. The truth is, most first-time buyers don’t need more information — they need clarity.

After helping many first-time buyers across Denver and throughout Colorado, I get asked one question all the time: “What would you do if you were buying your first home right now?” And my answer is always the same. I wouldn’t rush to tour homes or chase the latest listing. I’d slow the process down and focus on building a solid foundation first.

The very first thing I’d do is get clear on my numbers — not just what a lender says I can afford, but what feels comfortable for my day-to-day life. Monthly payment matters far more than purchase price, and understanding how taxes, insurance, and HOA dues fit into that picture makes the entire process less stressful. When buyers skip this step, every decision feels heavier. When they don’t, the rest of the process becomes much more manageable.

From there, I’d make sure I had a plan before ever falling in love with a house. One of the biggest mistakes first-time buyers make is touring homes without a clear strategy, getting emotionally attached, and then feeling pressure to make fast decisions. If I were buying today, I’d want to understand how I’d approach offers, what terms actually matter, and where I have flexibility. A good plan doesn’t limit your options — it protects you from stress and regret.

I’d also focus far less on finding a “perfect” home and far more on finding the right one. Paint colors, fixtures, and cosmetic details are easy to change over time. Layout, location, and overall condition are not. If I were buying my first home, I’d prioritize livability and long-term comfort over surface-level upgrades that look great in photos but don’t always translate to everyday life.

Just as important, I’d make sure I had the right people around me. Buying a home isn’t something you should feel like you’re navigating alone. I’d want a lender who communicates clearly, an agent who explains the why behind each step, and an inspector who looks beyond the obvious. The right team doesn’t just help you close — they help you feel confident and informed from start to finish.

At the end of the day, getting under contract wouldn’t be my main goal. Closing matters, but confidence matters more. If I were buying my first home in Denver today, success would look like understanding my options, feeling good about my decisions, and knowing I wasn’t being rushed or pressured along the way.

Buying your first home doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. With the right preparation, a clear strategy, and honest guidance, it can actually be an empowering and exciting experience.

If you’re thinking about buying your first home — whether that’s next month or next year — I’m always happy to answer questions and walk you through what the process could look like for you. Reach out anytime to start the conversation. No pressure — just honest guidance.

All The Best, Samuel

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